standing in the kitchen while your child laughs at a cartoon, feeling completely invisible to them even though you are the one who made the snack they are eating

The Quiet Ground They Stand On

The cartoon laughs, and you stand there holding the plate you just filled, feeling like a ghost in your own kitchen. You made the snack, you wiped the table, you are the one who kept them safe—and yet, to their eyes, you are just the background noise of a morning that belongs to them alone.

It is a specific kind of silence, being the source of everything they enjoy while remaining invisible to them. But there is a seeing that happens in the quiet, a witness that does not need applause to be real.

You are not unseen just because their eyes are fixed on the screen. The light that lives in you was already shining before they laughed, and it will still be there when the episode ends.

What is done in secret is seen by the Father who sees what is hidden. You are not a servant in your own home; you are the quiet ground they stand on.

The mask of invisibility is heavy, but it does not change the truth: you are known, even in the silence.

Drawing from

Matthew 6:4, Matthew 6:6

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