watching your own parents become strangers to your children because they cannot share the stories that built you

The Stories Migrated Into Your Bones

The afternoon sun is high, but the house feels quiet in a way that has nothing to do with noise. You watch your children play near your parents, and you realize the stories that built you—the ones that explain why you laugh at certain things or fear others—are trapped behind a glass wall.

Your parents are becoming strangers to the people they helped create. The middle of the day is hard because it asks you to stand in two worlds at once: the world where you are still a child needing your history, and the world where you are a parent trying to pass it on.

But the light does not depend on memory to survive. There is a spirit within you that knows your origin even when the voices who spoke it go silent.

You are the living archive. The stories did not die; they migrated.

They moved from their lips into your bones, into the way you hold your own children when they cry. You do not need them to remember for the light to remain.

You are the memory now.

Drawing from

Gospel of Thomas, John

Verses

John 16:33

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