apologizing before you have even spoken because you are certain your existence is an inconvenience

Stop Apologizing for Your Existence

In this hour, you are already whispering 'I'm sorry' for the space you take up. You brace for the rejection you are certain is coming.

But the light does not see an inconvenience. It sees a home.

There was a woman who thought her past made her unworthy to even speak, yet she was told that her great love proved she was already forgiven — before she asked. You are waiting for permission to exist that has already been granted.

The kingdom is not a reward for the quiet and the small; it is spread out beneath you right now, hidden in plain sight, waiting for you to stop apologizing for your own feet. You think you must earn your place in the room.

The truth is simpler: the light was here before you arrived, and it will remain when you leave, and in the middle, it holds you without condition.

Drawing from

Luke 7:47, Gospel of Thomas 113

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